#4 Dead Ones Communicating with Us?

       "There is this man that has been very close to  his mother. He is such a mama's boy and he did everything and anything for her mother. Even he has his own family already, he still never lost his sight for his mother. One day, fate played with him. His mom died due to cardiac arrest. He was so sad. He felt that the has the world upon his shoulders. He was so depressed that he left his family, wasted all his money just to drink and smoke everyday of his life because he thought that it was the escape. One night, he was driving. Because he was so drunk, he had flunked on the car's controls and maneuvered the car all the way down the cliff. No one was around there but only him. By the time the car went off, the only thing he saw was a very bright white light, then right before his eyes, he saw his mother. "Don't lose your life. you still have lot of people to love. I know it's very sad for you because we've spent so much time together, but remember, you still have your family. Your friends. Other loved-ones to take care of. Your life doesn't end here. There's more way to go." "but mom.." his mom fades away through the light and he woke up while lying on a hospital bed. Around him was the family that he left, as he says "Sorry to all of you. Sorry for everything."

       The story tells about how a dead mom tells his son to do what he should do. It is really magical that no one can deny that our dead loved-ones communicate with  us. Reaching us anytime gives them the chance to do some things with very important purpose. Based on my experiences and hereabouts, there are 2 main reasons why they communicate with us. One of this is that they would like to inform you about something important that you never knew. May it be a secret or a bigger one. These information make them feel bothered if they won't be able to blurt it out. One clear illustration of this would be a dead mom telling her son that he is an adopted child and he should find his parents. Another purpose why they communicate with us is to spend time with again because they are missing the times we've been together. Missing a loved-one is really one big factor that makes us feel sad. Thus, dead people try to do their best to show themselves to us in such a way that we are able to communicate, say hi or even ask if they're okay. Sometimes, they let us feel their presence. One of my experience regarding this one is that I have this uncle of who passed away 7 years ago. After a year from his death, I went to his house to visit my tita. He had shown signs that he was in the room that I was in that time because I smelled his favorite alcoholic drink all around the room where in fact, no one near the room was drinking the same kind of drink.
        These are just some of the reasons I could point out of the countless things that might be considered. As to end up, i really believe in this kind of things because it has been proven by my experiences. Horrific it may be for others, but for me, I consider it lovely as well. I get the chance o remember them and to feel their presence as if we are together all over again.

#3 I Stop to Say Thank You to Papa and Mama

        My parents are some of the most important people to me. They take a big part of my treasures because they have let me feel loved all the way as I grew up. From childhood up to now, they never took their eyes of me and they made sure that they could give what's best for me. Also, they taught me to value our family unlike the way others do to their own as of now. People today tend to forget their loved-ones due to other things that are given more priority such as work and earning money but to me, this does not apply. My papa and  mama really emphasized into us, my brother and I, that TIME is the essential thing to keep the fire burning in a family. It is the building block in order to create a good bond among the family members.

         Now because of these reasons, i would like to thank you to them. That is, a thank you form the bootom of my heart for all the unmeasurable efforts they have exerted jut to take care of me, the uncountable times they have sacrificed for my own sake and for instilling in me the values and the things that I could use in the future if I would have my own family also. For everything that they have done, I would like to do my best as well to reciprocate all those acts of kindness and make sure that I will love them unconditionally not only today, but forever and always.